We don't fix grief. We feel it, together.
Honest words about living with loss, from someone who gets it and a community of 67,000 who do too.
a place for the ones carrying it
Happy Grieving started because Rachel's dad died in 2021, when she was in her twenties, and almost nothing anyone said helped. What helped was other people who got it. People who didn't flinch, didn't offer silver linings, didn't need the grief explained.
So this is a place for the ones carrying it. No stages. No timelines. No "at least".
Where to start
Wherever you are, start there
- It just happenedThe first days and weeks, when nothing makes sense and everyone else has already gone back to normal.
- You're the one holding everyone else togetherPlanning the funeral, holding the family up, and somehow also supposed to be grieving too.
- An anniversary is comingThe death date, a birthday, a holiday. The dread before it is often worse than the day itself.
- Everyone thinks you should be over it by nowGrief doesn't end at the first year. This is for the long road after, when the world stopped checking in.
- You lost a parent, and you're still youngGrieving decades ahead of schedule, while friends still have theirs.
- The people around you don't get itThe friends who stayed, the ones who vanished, and what it costs to keep translating your grief for people who haven't lived it.
The whole library has over a hundred pieces, sorted by the kind of week you're having.
What we make
What lives here
- Grief TripsAvailable nowSmall-group journeys with people who get it. Portugal, Bali, the Maldives.
- The Group ProgramAvailable nowSix months of being held in a small online circle, with Rachel and Blair.
- The AppComingFor the 3am moments. Join the waitlist to hear first.
- Grief Songs That Get It: PlaylistListen nowThe songs that land, chosen by the people here.
Stay close
One honest letter a month
No tips. No fixes. Just words from someone who gets it, in your inbox when the scroll runs out.
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